I know that people may have a different opinion and way of thinking. I have my rights to dislike their opinion and values. But I respect their views so I never bullied them (in front of their face, or implicitly, or saying their views are cringe whatsoever, or seeing my views are better than them).
Just keeping it to myself.
For an example, I know that I don't like Korean music and drama. However, I don't see my friends who like them as 'lower' than me, and I don't insult them, or doing things that may hurt their feelings.
You may have an opinion, but you don't have the right to insult others' that have a different point of view.
I guess that is my threshold. Because by insulting others', you feel like you're better than them. When actually you do also have a lot of flaws. Learn to distinguish between criticising and mocking others.
It's so difficult for me communicating this particular principal to others.
Dan gue dikelilingi orang-orang yang hobi ngejulidin atau ngatain orang lain. Seakan dirinya sempurna. Boleh gak suka, boleh beda pendapat, tapi gak usah ngatain kalo emang gak paham-paham banget sama yang dikritik. Hobinya menjatuhkan, bukan membangun.
Ternyata ini yang bikin gue eneg dan capek selama ini
Sunday, April 21, 2019
Everything's shit, I guess?
+ Deby at 10:22:00 AM
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